“Never settle” is simultaneously the best and the worst advice I’ve ever received when it comes to dating. For most of my single and eligible life (let’s say 16+), I was on the lookout for the one. I placed women on pedestals and desperately sought [...]
Succeeding as an introvert might mean developing your extroverted side and capitalizing on the strengths your introversion brings you. I’ve struggled with appreciating the fact that I'm introverted. It just feels like so much of life and relationships are an uphill battle since outgoingness [...]
“Marriage is a traditional institution, and women today are not traditional.” Men, therefore, shouldn’t bother getting married. So the argument goes, according to the Fresh & Fit Guys, recent guests on Tim Pool’s podcast and hosts of their own. They focus on dating and lifestyle [...]
In this recent mini-series, I’ve been dwelling a lot on the negative. A friend said my first post made her sad. Can’t blame her! She and I had talked about dating from a Christian angle before, and she suggested I talk about how Jesus gives [...]
In another post in this dating series that reeks of positivity, I discussed problems with dating/sex culture and assessed Tomi Lahren’s “a lot of men are trash” comments. But the problems with dating in the 21st century are a long list. I think our social [...]
“A lot of men are trash… I’m here to help you,” said Tomi Lahren. Reading between the lines, I’m guessing her and her friends are fed up with their dating lives. She went on to say as much. If nothing else, she has me thinking. [...]
Rejection sucks. It happens for different reasons. I just wasn’t feeling it. I don’t feel the same way. I think we’re just really different people. Sometimes it feels like it’s based on a lie. But they don’t know me! They haven’t seen the real me. [...]
I’m in a weird spot. I’m 30 and single. That's unusual, both historically and in my Christian subculture (at least for males). It's not so unusual in contemporary Western culture, but experience and statistics seem to suggest that an unmarried male is going to have [...]
So you're dating. Great. All those feels, am I right? Seriously though. Those feels. They make you crazy. Like actually: neurochemistry goes wack for a while when you're with a new person. For over a year sometimes. There are probably a million questions you should [...]
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